“There was a perfect love story. It was sacred. But one day that sanctity broke, his touch seemed to her a sin. No, it wasn’t his love that seemed carnal but she had her own limits. But he said, love knows no limits. But to her it was associated with an institution, certainly not a license, but something sacred, to be shared with special one in life.”
For most girls, love still is about good old virtues of faith, understanding and companionship. Physicality comes much later, preferably after the seven vows of marriage have been taken care of.
Quite often when the years are young, love stands stuck in the thinking of ‘where is the line……………’
Physical relationship certainly doesn’t make a relationship strong, but if both r sharing a mature thought, it can take it forward. If a couple is fine with it, they can go ahead while taking precautions. But only if their mature thoughts have well cemented the relationship.
But that mature thought is absent in today’s youth. Their relationships are so fragile that they fall apart easily at the slighter rough weather. The youth are totally confused about relationship.
Girls go for physical relationships to get love, while boys use love to get physical relations. Most of the time girls feel cheated.
Who is the accused? Definitely not only males. Girls too are going the boys way.
A couple eager to sleep together the very first time can not be good partners. Physicality is the sacred issue & knowing each other is more important. Instead of physical intimacy, respect & concern for each other makes relationship stronger & long lasting. A relationship survives only on the basis of love. Physical relationship dies as the relationship gets older. Honest concerns for each other strengthen a relationship. What survives it all are those softer moments of joy, intimacy & belongingness
For most girls, love still is about good old virtues of faith, understanding and companionship. Physicality comes much later, preferably after the seven vows of marriage have been taken care of.
Quite often when the years are young, love stands stuck in the thinking of ‘where is the line……………’
Physical relationship certainly doesn’t make a relationship strong, but if both r sharing a mature thought, it can take it forward. If a couple is fine with it, they can go ahead while taking precautions. But only if their mature thoughts have well cemented the relationship.
But that mature thought is absent in today’s youth. Their relationships are so fragile that they fall apart easily at the slighter rough weather. The youth are totally confused about relationship.
Girls go for physical relationships to get love, while boys use love to get physical relations. Most of the time girls feel cheated.
Who is the accused? Definitely not only males. Girls too are going the boys way.
A couple eager to sleep together the very first time can not be good partners. Physicality is the sacred issue & knowing each other is more important. Instead of physical intimacy, respect & concern for each other makes relationship stronger & long lasting. A relationship survives only on the basis of love. Physical relationship dies as the relationship gets older. Honest concerns for each other strengthen a relationship. What survives it all are those softer moments of joy, intimacy & belongingness
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